The only thing that matters is what is upstairs. If she is smart and rational (as rational as a woman can be) then I would say give it a little time. If you question her decision making ability or would consider her not the smartest peanut in the turd then I would send her packing. Honestly find yourself a smart girl that is gainfully employed and go from there. Anything else is either a waste of time or a bumpier road to get to the same place. A smart woman will be able to look at guns from other perspectives and make the right conclusion in time. Dumb ones will leave you with a messy divorce and a .357 ish size hole in your wall. (I might be speaking from experience)