EXACTLY the problem... unless you really know them, and I mean REALLY know them- like one family that is group 1, I know wayy too much about them, and would trust them to help, but his oldest child would really have to prove himself... there would be a "come to Jesus" meeting (not literally) to make him realize what is expected of him
I would never post all of my plans online, totally agree with opsec...
I think about these things... and I've determined the only way to really trust someone is to know them.
There is a difference between wanting to help your fellow man, and the right way to do it- unfortunately, we live in an evil world.