After meeting the animals, he walked the dog to establish some rapport. We muzzled Tango for the kitten's safety, and Sean (trainer/behaviorist) sat on the floor with her. He had her lay down on her side, and then basically let the kitten run around. Whenever Tango would try to get up, or even perk up her ears, he'd correct her and keep her down. Nothing forceful, just some noises and gentle touch with his fingertips. He never even said "No" (he kept that word in reserve for really bad behavior, like mauling of children).
Tango kept getting frustrated, but he didn't give her a break. His technique was beyond my depth of understanding. He'd see different body language/ whining/ sighing from the dog, and say it meant such-and-such, and change the way he was touching the dog. He said different sorts of touch meant different things to the dog. He never let her express any interest in the kitten. I gotta admit, I thought it was BS the whole time, and expected Tango to eat the kitten at the first opportunity. Before long (a couple hours), the kitten was walking on top of the dog, and Tango eventually just sighed and relaxed.
The kitten was only 5 weeks old, so she didn't have any fear of the dog, which certainly made it easier than it would've been with a grown cat.
They've been best friends ever since.
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