you need to slowly heat the rocks to bake the moisture out of their center to keep them from exploding while being heated. theres no real cure for them exploding when theyre quenched in the water as thats rock selection. finding a flat rock to put in the center of your coals to stack your hot rocks on will keep them out of the soot/ash. an initial rinse would be advised. you can also place hot rocks in your bedding to keep warm on cold nights. exchange them when they get cold and stoke your fire