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"But when it's time to fight, you fight like you are the third monkey on the ramp to Noah's Ark; and brother, it's startin' to rain."
If you had kids, you could make them drive down to Centennial for you.
"There are no finger prints under water."
Not really. WE raised a kid, paid bills on time or close to it, owned 4 homes,all vehicles paid for. Outside the c/card bill of less than $200, we have zero debt. At least until the garage gets built, then who knows what i'll throw on the card to put in the shop.
The question is, not really as it's none of anyone's business, how much debt anyone carries. IF one were to become unemployed for longer than 1 month could you carry the debt you have w/out having to refi, or sell off, to keep your head above water. 2 months or longer?
Last edited by Great-Kazoo; 10-28-2018 at 23:02.
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"when you're happy you enjoy the melody but, when you're broken you understand the lyrics".
If I didn’t have kids, that means I’m not married. Which means I’d do what I did before marriage entered the picture: live in a small shitty apt, work odd jobs when the mood hits me, and wonder why I didn’t take the MOS change the Army offered in lieu of the med retirement. I don’t understand people who work good paying jobs when single. I’d rather be a janitor or homeless.I only make what I do because it support a family. Life isn’t in income, it’s in experiences. Those rarely pay.
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It is terrible to contemplate how few politicians are hanged. - The Cleveland Press, March 1, 1921, GK Chesterton
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Just based on my own personal experiences (which may or may not be outside the norm), 1 kid is relatively easy (although doesn't seem so at the time), but multiples can start getting very expensive collectively, especially if one or more is active in an expensive sport. Potentially compounding the issue, there may be better-paying opportunities that need to be turned down to avoid being an absentee-parent (have personally turned down jobs as well as quit current ones for this very reason).
This issue of cushion or breathing room is different and an excellent point btw, but I don't think it's possible to come up with a universally solid approach given the variety of conditions which may apply. I most often hear the recommendation to build a stash with coverage for at least 6mo, but in reality that can be a real bitch to pull off. Also, in some cases a need for breathing breathing room (or problems from lack thereof) can be unrelated to an employment change, and just a matter of how much shit can go wrong at the same time...
But those are the benefits of working a good paying job while single. Doing stuff usually costs money, doing it in style or with 'company' costs more. Having a good-paying day job gives you the flexibility to save/invest, live-it-up and build memories, or do a bit of both (which imho is probably the best option).