You're just going to have to prep for her. Sounds like she isn't mentally prepared to even consider that as a possibility. Unfortunately, lots of people are like that.
My wife says to tell her that "The Road" was written by Danielle Steel.
LOL
God, I wish Danielle Steele would write one of these.
"The Second Amendment was put in the first ten in order to protect the other nine"
Post Certified firearms instructor
Glock Armorer
Colt; M4, M16 and SMG armorer