Probably best to stick to family and good friends you know in person. And of course, do our best to make sure it never gets to this point.
I tend towards the "family and friends" group also. Those are the people I know are going to be automatically included if things go sideways. That being said, I'm always interested in meeting like minded people and sharing ideas.
Mick-Boy
"Men who carry rifles for a living do not seek reward outside the guild. The most cherished gift...is a nod from his peers."