Divorce lawyer recommendation (Boulder)?

[WETWRKS]

You really need to try and get it moved out of the Boulder system. Almost anywhere than there. I have a friend that has been through hell because it was initiated (and thus stays) in the Boulder system.

She was going out to bars, staying out all night and eventually for days on end leaving him to care for 4, 3, and 1 year olds. She was doing drugs and other men. She ended up with the kids and about $900-1200 per month. When he lost his job and had to take a much lower paying job the court refused to reduce the amounts of child payments. He has gotten screwed out of tax benefits and out of getting to see the kids. She has hawled him into court on a 6 month cycle for several years trying to do nothing but cause him problems. This has gone on for years.

Get out of Boulder.

[oddthomas]

You really need to try and get it moved out of the Boulder system. Almost anywhere than there. I have a friend that has been through hell because it was initiated (and thus stays) in the Boulder system.

I'm not sure I can. The papers were filed, probably deliberately, in Boulder County. I found an ex-DA who is now in private practice in Boulder so he knows the ropes so to speak. I'll see how screwed I am after talking with him today. I'm hoping that her arrest and mental history background will at least get me joint custody of my daughter and infant son. Either way I know I'm screwed but such is life. I'll survive, but it pisses me off to no end that she simply used me to provide financial support to raise a child that wasn't even mine biologically. And she lied about it for 6 years until the guilt within her blew a fuse plus finding out that the newborn infant is blind since he inherited her genetic difficulties.

[boulderite]

Sending postive vibes your way !
When my life has been challenging postive thinking has help me.
Also watching Jerry Springer is always a confindence booster as well.