Ha! Ha! Ha! No offense to the XDm Owners!!!!
I adjust my own sights with the B&J P500 Universal Sight Tool (have you seen this tool? It is exceptional!). http://www.brownells.com/.aspx/pid=1...SAL-SIGHT-TOOL
It wasn't that, more so the way it felt for me. It just wasn't my thing - but I did mention that operation was flawless and the gun was accurate. I tried the grips as well - they're nice, but for whatever reason, it wasn't meant to me mine... Personal preference/opinion.
Thanks for the feedback!